I never claimed to be smart, i try very hard in my studies and that’s why i do well. I wasn’t born with any natural talents that would lead me through life. I’ve never been good with relationships, whether they were family ones, friends, or boyfriends.

I’ve screwed up more times than you can count on your hands and feet, and i’ve probably hurt others even more than that. The thing is, i’ve learned. Every mistake i make, every time i do something wrong, i learn. I learn not to act that way again, not to treat people the way i treated them, not to hurt others. Not only do i learn from my own mistakes, but i also learn from those other’s around me make. When i see a friend going through a rough patch i learn from how they deal with it so that if i happen to be in that situation someday, i’ll know how to deal with it.

I wasn’t prepared for this situation. I assumed you were clever enough to learn from my mistakes, but i was oh so wrong. I’ve never been so wronged or wrong in my life.

I know i’ve made mistakes, and i know i’ve hurt you. the thing is love, we’re not so different you and i.. we’ve both made the mistakes, the only difference is i’m smart enough to know when to forgive and forget, and when to own up to them!

For future reference, you don’t have to have sex to cheat. once you find yourself deleting facebook coversations, you’re probably already almost there. trust me, been there, done that. not worth it, and i’m pretty sure unless you manage to prove me otherwise that neither are you.

i have my maths lecturer on facebook and he’s just messaged me to let me know that unofficially ive got an A overall in the course, and got full marks on the final i took a few hours ago. guessing all that tutoring when i was younger finally paid off

now to watch some american dad and some last minute revision before bed. my two hardest exams, international business and international marketing, are tomorrow. so if i fail them both… at least i got one A this term!

i don’t think i’ve ever been so scared in my life, but i know that this too i will conquer. i have made it through more turmoil in the last five years than some people do in a lifetime, and if someone wants to take praise for why i’m still standing, then go ahead. go ahead. lie to yourself, because believe me, you are not the reason i am who i am. yes, for the last two years i spent a lot of time with a boy, a boy who meant so much to me. someone i truly gave my all, i was ready to do anything for him. i gave up friendships, i spent more time with him than i should’ve. i didn’t waste my first years of living alone or being at university, but i didn’t live it to the fullest either. i don’t regret anything, because he’s taught me so much. he helped me through some of the toughest battles, but without him i’d still be strong, and i will be strong without him. i’ve got amazing family and friends and even if i’ll be alone at first, i will find my way. i always do. plus being just me for a while is probably the healthiest thing for me right now. never mind my grades are skyrocketing

i made some mistakes, and that’s on me. i don’t neglect the fact that i hurt him too, and in no way am i trying to say that what i did was acceptable because of how he made me feel. i’m mature enough to know that what i did was wrong, and i am strong enough to say sorry and admit my faults.

the thing is i can’t keep lying to myself. there was a reason behind my actions, i didn’t just wake up one day and decide to ruin one of the greatest things i’ve ever had. but what i’ve come to see is that i didn’t ruin it alone, we did. after constantly being put down, constantly being neglected, knowing that i was holding somebody back, that this somebody who i would trade the world for didn’t even think i was worth deleting a simple nobody off of facebook for… how was i supposed to continue? how was i supposed to ignore the messages, the words written, the verbal abuse, how was i supposed to say it was okay and fake a smile? how do you love somebody who says so much, yet does so little to prove it? 

things could’ve been so different today. things would’ve been on track and i would be sitting here writing about how damn happy this boy makes me. the truth is, he hasn’t made me happy for a while now. the amount of phone calls to my sister, the tears, the hurt and emptiness inside me.. that’s not what a relationship is.

i’ve been pushed around for far too long. if he can’t realise that what he did hurt me, and that it was a factor in this equation, then fixing our relationship is not worth my time. it hurts more than i ever thought something like this would. i feel destroyed and i don’t know how to live without him, but this is not healthy. i am not healthy right now. i’m in a hole that we’re both digging deeper and deeper. we’ve both got our walls up, and neither of us is letting the other one past, and that is not a relationship. a relationship is based on a friendship with someone who is special to you and right now we are not friends, there is no trust, there is no love. there is no love. that to me is shameful. the fact that we both neglected each other’s feelings to a point that we’ve ruined what we had in the first place. it takes two people in a relationship, not one. i can’t fight our battles alone. i can’t make him love me, i can’t make these problems go away.

if he’s not willing to prove to me that i’m worth it, then why on earth would i get down on my knees and beg for him to stay with me? it doesn’t make sense in my mind. i love him, i truly do, and this is the most open i’ve been about it since it all fell apart, but i can’t stay with him if he doesn’t make the commitment to change as well. the longer we keep lying to ourselves, the more pain we’ll cause ourselves in the long run, and when.. when do we decide enough fighting is enough? when do i stop crying myself to sleep at night? when do i decide i want to live again and not just be?

i want nothing more than for us to work it out. nothing. i want us to be us again. i want it so bad it hurts just thinking about it. there’s an emptiness inside me that only he can fill, and if he’s not willing to then i need to find my own way to fill it. i need to stand up for myself, i need to get through this as well. i know i will, but i know it’s going to be a long journey.

this isn’t us, and it’s up to him to either change it or end it for good.

here comes a few pictures of the bubbles from Danielle’s birthday this past weekend. went to hers first for drinks and then out.  facebook won’t let me save the other pictures, so i’ll have to add them later..

courtney is currently trying to diss me but little does she know that my heating works, AND i’m not sat home alone drinking wine by myself. ha, now what?

you ain’t got it, you ain’t got it. the theory is brilliant.

It’s interesting to listen to people talk about who they know, who they’ve met, and what their friends have.. saying it’s their claim to fame.

having a claim to fame has to be the lamest thing i’ve ever heard of.

if i’m gunna be famous, or pretend i am, i at least want it to be for something i’ve done. not because my friends are in a band.

granted it’s cool to meet famous people, and hell i’d tell people if i met someone famous as well, however, bragging.. not so cool.

it’s like these people know they will never amount to anything, so they try to get a free ride off of other peoples accomplishments.

plus there’s no point in posting on facebook ‘MY FRIENDS ARE IN A BAND’, at least not for me, cause have of my friends on facebook are friends with those in the band, haha.

so babes, unless you are the madonna, i don’t care if you are her best friend or cousin, you are still not her, and most likely never will be.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_2kePUx7pd8[/youtube]

have a look and listen! couple of my friends are in this band and i think they just keep getting better. playing at v and reading festival this august, so if you’re going make sure to check out the kit kat stage!

also the stand in line EP is out now and it’s amazing.

www.myspace.com/themoonjets & www.facebook.com/moonjets

isabella put some pictures up on facebook from yesterday.

makes sweden looks so nice cause she’s got an amazing camera, that im jealous of

daddy just updated his facebook ‘Always a good feeling beating Canada in hockey World Championship 3-1′ and i just realized that i don’t watch hockey at all anymore. part due to the fact that the internet here is absolutely horribly slow, also because i just have nobody to watch it with i miss going to the games. staying up late to watch them. cheering on my team, weather it be the stars, or sweden. either way i really miss it all. went to a game over christmas and the familiarity is just amazing. the game. the atmosphere. all of it. my favorite sport by far.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8w80_EyRnJw[/youtube]

new video blog! its a bit shitty i know. i kept making a weird and anoyying smacking noise with my mouth. you can also hear the facebook chat in the background. sorry. i was too lazy to redo it and shit though. so you can deal